Friday, October 12, 2012

Major Turn-off.

Okay. I think I have had quite enough of this.  (Sorry if I sound preachy in this post but I seriously have to get this off my chest.)

Guys who whine non-stop all day twenty-four-seven that is.

'My life sucks.'
'Nobody understands me.'
'Screw this shit.'

I get that everyone has their ups and downs, but DONT OVERDO IT.

(I am referring to guys in general. If you think that I am talking about you, I am probably not so dont take it personally ok?)

Whatever happened to the common notion that guys are supposed to be strong and macho and not supposed to show their feelings? I think it is the result of too many sappy Korean dramas. I think that guys who cry are cute, but only when they are truly upset about something.

It is totally different from when guys WHINE about every single little problem that is happening in their lives and make it sound oh-so-miserable when it actually isn't. The only one who is making your life even more miserable than it already is, is yourself. You choose not to see the good part of your life, and just wallow and over-indulge in self-pity.

I am being a little sexist here, as you can see I didnt mention anything about girls. But, girls are known to be more sensitive and it is natural for us to act this way. It is pretty disturbing to see that quite a few girls now are even stronger than guys in terms of emotions.

This quality of a guy is the most major turn-off ever, right along side with the douches and the show-offs. (the other two are at the very least understandable)